Tidbits Gathered Prompt New Questions!

So, I said I was going to start going through my genealogy and, in a sense, I have. I must admit that I started to unpack some of my files and I quickly stopped when I realized that I didn’t even know who some of these folks were! Scary trying to pick up your research when it’s been packed up for 2 years!

Anyways, I decided I would check out Family Search and see what was going on there. As usual, I punched in my Dad’s name and did a search to see what I could find. I found a couple of new records that are from a new database, “Texas Birth Records, 1903-1934“. I’m excited to see what I can find in this collection.

When I began looking at what I found, it was quite interesting. I’ve seen a copy of my Father’s Birth Certificate before. I’ve often wondered about it because it looks like it says David Franklin Spangler, Jr. but then the Franklin is scratched out and above it is written “Isaic” and the “Jr.” is also scratched out. I’ve often wondered about how this could be accepted since there were so many alterations to it! Well, according to the original, my Dad’s name was Dave Spangler, Jr. and there were no changes made to it until Oct. 1941 when his dad decided to make a change to it. On that day he changed it to read “David Isaac Spangler” and the addendum was added to the original.

The interesting part is that on the same day there was also a change made to my Aunt’s Birth Certificate. My Aunt Irene is my Dad’s twin sister. Her original Birth Certificate has her as Ora Spangler but on that day in 1941, her father changed it to “Ora Irene Spangler”.

So now I have new questions. What prompted this change? They were both approaching there 13th birthday so maybe that had something to do with it. Did my Dad actually go by “Jr.” until then? Why would they add the “Isaac” and “Irene” to the names? The “Isaac” I can understand as my Great-Grandfather was James Isaic Spangler but where does the “Irene” come in?

There’s only one person I can think of who might possibly know the answer to this. Unfortunately, this isn’t a good time to ask her as she recently lost her daughter and the funeral is today!

I do need to try to contact her though. It’s not earth shattering info but if I do want to seek answers, the window for that is closing!

I’ll write back and let y’all know my results later.

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Making Plans For My New Beginnings

Hello everyone! I’ve been silent lately but it’s not because I’ve been lazy, I promise! :-)

I’ve been trying to make preparations for my new beginnings here at Beyond Fiction. Over the next few weeks I will begin unpacking my research, which has been packed up for almost 2 years now. It’s going to be a long process but I plan on sharing my progress with you as I do it.

Perhaps by re-organizing my research, I will be able to update my blog also. Since I lost a good portion of it a year or so ago, that would make it a little more useful for everyone!

So, bear with me and I will begin posting my progress soon!

Have a great week everyone!

Ken

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Adjusting To Change, Changing To Adjust

Hello everyone! It’s been a while since I have posted. I’d like to change that but I can’t make any promises! :-)

Today, I have decided to write about something that I have been thinking about for a while now. What better time to do so than on my 49th birthday!

I am discovering that as we grow older we have to adjust to the many changes that are occurring in our life. I’m not a Spring chicken anymore! My body is not capable of some of the things I did when I was younger. My mind is not as sharp as it used to be. I’m not able to fight off sickness as easily as I used to.

I’m not saying that I am old and decrepit! I believe that you are only as old as you think you are but I also realize that you have to realize just how old you are sometimes also.

Which brings me to my next point. With all these changes that are going on in my life, it’s time for me to make some adjustments to compensate for those changes. Where I used to be able to do 10 things at a time, now I may have to limit it to only 5 things. Why? I need to limit the amount of stress in my life. I think the biggest problem I have had in the last few years is that I have had so much stress upon me. Some of it is just from growing older and some of it is because of me doing to much and thinking I can still keep up with the same pace I have always maintained.

I have to make some changes in my life. Will they be drastic? I don’t think so. I talked with my wife today and the topic was simply that I wanted to start taking time to enjoy life. I’m spending way too much time trying to do too much and I’m not able to enjoy anything I am doing because I have no time to.

So, in the next few weeks I will begin to try to make some of those changes. My plan is to try to lay a foundation for success in 2012 by limiting the number of things I have going on in my life. Work, bills, taxes and such like can’t really be controlled but things such as couponing, genealogy, time spent on the computer or watching TV can be controlled.

It is my plan to try to find a balance in all these things. I don’t need to be an extreme couponer, just a person who saves enough to make his budget a little easier to maintain! I don’t need to try to find my roots all the way back to the Garden of Eden, I just need to find what I can, one generation at a time and make sure that I document what I have found. I don’t need to mend all the bridges I have burned in the past, I just need to fix what I can one at a time!

I am so thankful for the 49 years I have been given so far. I’ve been blessed beyond measure! I could have never imagined having such a loving wife. I’m proud of my children, even though they do have a lot of growing up left to do. I just have to learn to be patient with them and let them make mistakes so that they can learn from them! I’m thankful for my grandson and all that God has brought him through in this past year.

I don’t know what the future holds for me. All I do know is that I want to learn to take the time to enjoy whatever it does bring me. I am confident that it will not be more than I can bear.

Times like today I really miss my Daddy! We never had a really close relationship but I did respect him. Now that my children are older I can relate to how he felt. I could really use some advice from him on that subject now! I don’t feel like a failure, I just feel like I need answers and I can’t really seem to find them.

Oh my, I find myself rambling! Suffice it to say that among the many changes that will occur I will soon be writing more often on my blog. Why? Because it is important for me to stay in touch with my family and I plan on using this blog as a tool for doing so. I’m not a phone person so I don’t make calls to everyone everyday. I do love to write and I look forward to writing many messages and sharing my life with my family and my many friends!

Thanks for bearing with me today. I hope you will stick around and see how these things work out for me!

Ken

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Status Update, 10/11/11

Hello everyone! I’m still trying to get things in order but I wanted to let you all know that I am still around! :-)

Life has been busy lately. I don’t know so much as if it is my fault or if it is just the fact that we are all busy. Sometimes I wonder if I allow myself to be caught up in things that are time consuming but I could really do without!

I’ve got a lot of things to work out. Trying to find a balance between the demands of life, the things I want to do and the things that I feel I need to do is sometimes very hard! I’ve got an idea of how to work it out but it may take me a bit.

In the meantime, I think I will start a series in the next week that will allow my readers (mainly family) to get to know me better. Lots of folks think they know me but the fact is that most of my family and friends really don’t know me that well. I keep my feelings hidden pretty good and I rarely allow too many folks access to my world.

So, look for a few more posts soon and allow me a bit of leeway in order to introduce myself afresh to everyone!

Thanks for stopping by and have a wonderful week everyone!

Ken

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A Few Words To My Family And Friends

Hello everyone! :-)

I know my posts have been few and far between lately but I am hoping to change that soon. I know I have said that in the past but I am seriously wanting to make some changes in my life and part of those changes will be getting back to doing things that I really enjoy, not things I feel I have to do just because!

I’ll probably start off with a few personal blogs that will help everyone get to know me a little better and then I will move on to re-introducing my genealogy research. I will still occasionally post some deals on coupons and such but I really want to just get back to posting things about my life and all the things that are part of it!

Until then, I wish you all the best and I am thankful for all of those who have supported me even during my down time!

Have a great day!

Ken

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